This column is a personal tribute to my husband, who thankfully is alive after totally unexpected heart surgery last Friday. He volunteered for service in World War II at the age of19 and spent 36 months overseas in the European theater. He, like many veterans, doesn't like to talk about the war or watch movies or television about wars. Like many other veterans, he has medals for various battles, including the Purple Heart.
We did watch some of the excellent television specials aired six years ago during the 50th anniversary of D-Day, the landing of Allied troops on the beaches of Normandy. My husband landed on Normandy 16 days later, chest high in water, loaded down with equipment, unable to swim and absolutely terrified. He really has never cared to describe the rest of the scene.
Watching the televison specials was an emotional time for us and thousands upon thousands of other veterans and their families. We cried as the horror of it all was remembered by survivors of D-Day who revisited Normandy and talked about it on camera for the first time in 50 years.
My husband was part of a combat engineering group that built bridges and airfields and set up water purification units.
What he enjoys remembering is playing in an Army band and playing football with the Soissons All-Stars in Soissons, France. Somehow his father picked up the game on a ham radio in Alexis, Illinois. I've also seen photos of a very pretty girl from Paris, so it's obvious and fortunate there are some breaks from the hell of war.
Most of our lives, ten or so years difference in age doesn't make much of a difference, but during WW II I was in grade school, following my father around the countryside because he volunteered for the Army at the age of 35. Luckily, he was never sent overseas, and my mother, brother and I followed him for three years from Carolina Beach, North Carolina, to Portsmouth, Virginia, to Claxton, Georgia, back for a brief time to my hometown of Kewanee, then to Tomah, Wisconsin.
When victory in Europe was declared, my husband was in Germany preparing to be sent to the Pacific Theater to fight the rest of the war. Instead, he and many other heroes we know, men and women we see every day, got to come home.
Out of respect for my husband and father I am a member of the American Legion Auxiliary Ralph Noble Post #285. Unfortunately, the honor guard of that Legion Post is in constant demand at the funerals of our war's veterans, especially those of World War II. If you don't think those experiences aren't always in the minds of our veterans, consider what my husband said when he was ready to go into life-threatening surgery last Friday. He was sedated and beginning to feel the effects of his medicine.
''Do know what day this is?'' he asked me. With great weariness, I answered, ''No.''
''It's D-Day,'' he said, as they wheeled him away. He was only four days early.
Caroline Porter is a freelance writer from Galesburg and can be reached at firstname.lastname@example.org.