ÔMIXED BLESSINGSÕ
All of us have had times in
our lives when weÕve struggled with mixed blessings. Your teenager wrecks the
car but no one was hurt. YouÕve been waiting at the airport for the last three
hours for your parents who were due to arrive on the next plane. Now that flight
has been delayed as well and you wait some more. Later you find out traffic on
the freeway home was backed up for miles because of a chemical spill.
Blessings, taken for granted,
gifts no one wants, commonly called mixed blessings. Some days feel that rather
than divining our good, our higher power is busy divining our demise. Take
heart, I think youÕre not alone.
Caroline Myss Ph.D. author
and medical intuitive gives this picture of a mixed blessing. One day while at
home going through your usual routine, bored, you ask yourself for the
hundredth time, whatÕs my life all about, but this time you mean it. Your angel
listening begins to take action. She feels itÕs definitely time for some
changes and gives you three months to make those changes or she will, in her
own way. Time slips by. Unwilling to make waves or leave that job that has
never suited your higher good, you find yourself having been fired. If that isnÕt
enough suddenly you find the relationship you are in is very rocky and it flies
away as well. WhereÕs the blessing in that?
True story- A kind man,
business partner with two others finds himself confronted one day by his
longtime business friends with the fact that he is being put out. The business
has been in some serious financial trouble and they offer him a settlement of
$10,000 or 35,000 shares of worthless stock in a pet food company. Unsure of
what to do he decides he will sleep on it. That night he dreams he is traveling
in a Jaguar on a treacherous road with many hills and valleys, but in the end
he reaches his destination and all is well. Since the Jaguar is a powerful and
cunning cat, he decides this is a sign that he should take the stock in the pet
food company. The next day he accepts the 35,00 shares rather than the money
because $10,000 wonÕt begin to touch his debt. In a few short years he turns
the pet food company around and has more money and happiness than he could
imagine. First came the betrayal, then growth and then the blessing. He credits
two things, his angels working through his seemingly ruthless business partners
and his dream about driving a Jaguar.
A parable- two Christmas
angels while traveling stop at the home of a wealthy couple for the night. The
couple is rude offering a meager meal and a cold dusty room in the basement. While
there, the wiser angel sees a large hole in the basement wall says nothing but
repairs it. The next night they come to rest at the home of a very poor farmer
and his wife. They were kind and gentle, offering a wonderful meal and insisted
they sleep in their bed so they would be rested for their next dayÕs journey.
Upon arising the next morning they find the farmerÕs wife in tears. Their only
cow, whose milk had been their sole source of income, lay dead in the field. The
younger angel infuriated asks the wiser angel Òhow could you let such a thing
happen? You so kindly repaired the basement wall for those people who offered
us so little yet you let these peoples cow die who offered us everything.Ó
The wise angel answered, Ô I
noticed there was gold stored in that hole in the wall and since the wealthy
people were so obsessed by their greed and unwilling to share their good fortune,
I sealed the wall so they would find it. Then last night the angel of death
came calling for the farmerÕs wife. I gave him the cow instead. So things are
not always as they seem.Õ
This holiday if you are
dealing with the rocky road of mixed blessings take heart. Although it may not
seem so, some angel somewhere is plotting and planning your souls greater good.
Till next time blessings to all, Rebecca